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31 August 2003 @ 11:37 pm
Happy Birthday  
Today is mom's birthday. So K and I drove to upperstate NY to visit her grave.
It was good to get out there again. It's a nice small town. It was understandably sad, and a little depressing. But when we were walking around the graveyard, there were some creepy grave markers for people who haven't died yet. Now I know some people want to plan ahead, and have things in order, and by plots for themselves. But to put a gravestone there? And sure, if one spouse dies, and they're going to be buried together, I understand putting both names on the grave stone. But we saw stones with both names, but both were still living?? Creepy.